I am that girl you see alone, sipping on her latte, reading a book in the corner of a coffee shop.
Since you are here, reading this right now, it's okay to assume that you're are either a solo adventurer, a loner, a misfit or someone who has just always wanted to know what it feels like to do things by yourself. To listen to nobody but just yourself.
Well, lucky for all of us, we are all at the right place. Treat this as a little nudge to not be afraid of doing things alone.
Before we begin, get inspired by DePaulo's words: "If you know that you can do things alone, that gives you a certain power".
Why spending time alone looked down upon by people? Why do people pity those who choose to do things alone? Why are people who chill just by themselves considered to be lonely?
The problem here is that we humans have thrived and survived because we are social animals. We need people for love and support. And all of that is okay. In no way are we encouraging you to stop talking to your friends, significant other and family. We want you to have those connections but at the same time, we want you to have a connection with yourself.
The truth we all have to accept is, that not everyone will want to go where you want to go. Not everyone will eat what you want to eat. Not everyone will be available for a spontaneous trip halfway across country. Don't let these people hold you back. Don't put your life on hold just because you have no one to go and do things you love with.
Go ahead and do everything your heat desires alone. Give your soul what it needs. Don't be afraid to do things alone. Happiness awaits you. And don't forget: DePaulo's words: "If you know that you can do things alone, that gives you a certain power".
Moral of this small story?
When you put yourself first, two great things will happen. First, you will get to eat whatever your heart desires. Second, you will fall in love with yourself.
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